Most of us have been dreaming about our wedding for YEARS, ever since we were little girls.
After giving an impressive, vivid description of her dream wedding day, one of my brides told me she that she'd been with her fiance for seven years...and she'd been planning her Dream Wedding day for five of them. She knew exactly what she wanted!
I remember imagining a wedding like Annie in the Father of the Bride movie. (Except it would never snow on my swans!)
But what if you DON'T know what you want for your Dream Day wedding?
You can't get what you want until you know what you want.
The single most important thing you can do to make your wedding a dream day is to KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.
"If you don't know what you want, you end up with a lot you don't." Chuck Palahniuk
Until you know specifically what you want for your dream wedding day, you can't get it.
On the other hand, when you know what you want for your wedding day, it becomes POSSIBLE. It becomes a GOAL. And that's right next door to a done deal.
I want you to become a Dream Wedding Diva. A Dream Wedding Diva knows what she wants for her Dream Wedding. She transforms her dreams into GOALS, because that's the only way they become real.
Once you know what you want, WRITE IT DOWN. Look at it every day. Be determined to make your Dream Day Wedding a reality.
So are you ready to transform your wedding dreams into reality?
It starts with a few simple steps. Here's how to do it:
- Take out your Dream Wedding journal. (If you don't have one, get one. This exercise makes a fantastic first journal entry.)
- Write down your Dream Wedding Day in as much detail as you can muster. Even if all you know is how you want to feel, write that down.
- Shorten your Dream Wedding into a few sentences you can memorize. Look at it every day. Say it out loud. Let it really sink into your unconscious mind so that it guides every decision you make for your wedding.
It starts with a dream. Then dreams written down become goals. And goals become REALITY.
Believe in yourself. You WILL have your Dream Day Wedding. I know you can do it!
Happy planning,
Stephanie
P.S. Leave me a comment about your Dream Wedding. Or send your specific wedding planning frustrations and challenges to Stephanie@SimplyYourSpecialDay.com so that I can answer them right here. I love hearing from you!
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